Video player not working?0:000:000:00SettingsQualityAutoAudioSpeed1×CaptionsOffJerry Springer Black GaysDula TVFunny videos since 2008Thumbs up0Thumbs down0 Share3.4K views Mar 2009On Jerry Springer, Rufus confronts his ex Trinea, whose new relationship with a woman comes to light, sparking a heated argument onstage. Show transcript0:07Rufus is back. Rufus is back. Hey, baby.0:15You are so funny. Look at you. Okay. Oh, you are so beautiful.0:19Goodness.0:19Thank you, girl.0:20You gotta sit down now. You ain't...0:23Oh my God.0:24Uh.0:25Hi, Jerry.0:25Uh, hi, Rufus. Hi, Ruf.0:26You've been all right?0:27I've been fine, thank you.0:29Welcome to the show. Uh, okay, you're here because, uh, uh, Trinea wants to, uh, tell you something, so why don't you go ahead?0:38You are so forward anyway.0:40You better be a ring.0:45Uh, Rufus, surprise, surprise, girl. Um, you know, um, you, okay, I don't know if you noticed, but I haven't been, I've been kind of distancing myself from you.0:58I've been telling you that I have been studying and everything else.1:01Well, actually, I'm just gonna come out with it. I don't know how else to do it, but, um, girl, there is somebody else.1:06That's...1:11Sorry, you know, um, there is somebody else.1:14Wait a minute, wait a minute.1:15It wasn't ringing anymore, okay?1:20First of all, let me tell you, you ain't all that anyway.1:22Oh, look at me. Let me tell you that. You are not all that. You are not all that.1:28You.1:28Okay. I am gorgeous. Raise of hands, thank you. One over there, one over there, okay?1:33Look at this. Look at this.1:35Okay, I tell you what, let's take a break. When we come back, we're going to meet the person in your life.1:39We'll be right back.1:56Welcome back. Uh, just before the break, break, uh, Trinea told his boyfriend Rufus that, uh...2:02Ex-boyfriend.2:05Well, that's what he just told.2:07No, you keep it up. You keep it up. Get out.2:11Okay.2:14You gotta come on.2:15No, no.2:17You better get out of my face.2:18No, no, no, no.2:18Dedicated my whole life to you and everything else, you want to act like that.2:21I ain't gonna cry no more like Mary J. Blige.2:23How long were you 2 guys together? How long were you 2 guys together, Rufus?2:27You know, we've been together for really a while, but it's been a long time for like, what, 4 or 5 years?2:33It's been like an octagon thing and everything.2:35That's how long you was with me, okay? I have excel.2:38You are not all that anyway. Look at you.2:40Baby.2:40Think you are, look at you.2:41Look at me.2:42Think you Tupac or something.2:48Sit up here, I mean, look at you. What goes around comes around.2:51You think you can go around and do anybody like that?2:53Well, let's meet, well, let's meet.2:55You know, I'm gonna get you, I'm gonna get you back. I know that much.2:57Jerry.2:58In bed.2:58He is not.2:59In the bed.2:59Look at, is he all that, audience? Is he all that? No, he is not.3:02Look at me, baby. Look at me. Do I look like Prince? I look like Prince.3:06Look at me.3:10It's over, girl. It's over, girl.3:19Okay.3:21Oh, okay, you is not all that anyway.3:30You is not all that.3:31I'm gonna work it.3:32Okay. You're not gonna work nothing.3:34Okay.3:35Shoot. Ain't worked nothing in the past few weeks.3:38All right, well, hey, why do you think that is? Why do you think that rotting, baby?3:50All right, okay, we're all vegetarians here. Let's, uh...3:55Let's bring out, hey, let's bring out the3:58Bring that tramp out.3:59Watch him out.4:00Uh-oh.4:01Watch him out. You're too full of fire.4:02Hey, hey.4:03You're too full of fire.4:04You just shut up.4:05Here is the new person, apparently, in Trinea's life. Come on out.4:19What do you think you're doing? What do you think you're doing?4:23What do you think you're doing? No, wait, you move over. I want to talk to this one.4:32Y'all started pushing me first, right? I got to defend myself.4:35I understand myself.4:40Ain't no West Side, ain't no shut up and sit down. Shut up and sit down.4:54All right.4:54How do you want it?4:55Wait a minute.4:56How do you want it?4:56Wait, hold up a second. You look familiar.4:59No.5:01Wait now, what is, what is this tramp's name?5:04Tramp.5:04This must be your cousin.5:05Tramp.5:06That's what I called you.5:07You called5:08I told5:08a tramp?5:09Yeah, I called you a tramp.5:10You got the nerve.5:11Wait a sec. Wait, in fairness, in fairness, you may be upset that, that they're together now, but why would you call her that you don't even know her?5:18Let me tell you, Jerry, he met her before, and I told him this was my cousin, but all the time we would, I just told him that because she hap- he happened to catch us at the mall together,5:27and I told him this was my cousin, but it's really been my girlfriend.5:31Hi. No, but you know what though? I mean, besides, wait a minute.5:34She looks familiar besides that. Remember, I think it was maybe about 2 or 3 weeks ago.5:39Rufus is over.5:40No, listen, it was about Jerry talk to me. It was about 2 or 3 weeks ago.5:44We was watching Jay Leno, all right? Now, he, his little beeper went off, beep, beep, beep, and everything else, so he gonna get up, go to the telephone, talk about 5 minutes.5:52So I was like, Trinea, where are you going? And he didn't even say nothing to me.5:55He was just like, he'll be right back. I asked him to bring me something back.5:57So he left out the door. I'm looking at the clock and everything, uh, 1:30, 2:30.6:02I mean, he never came. Well, he came back about 5, 6 in the morning.6:04Hello, my name is Rufus. Get a clue.6:06He came back about 5.6:08What did you think was going on?6:11I'm not gonna tell you about the time I followed you, so we ain't even gonna go there.6:14You should have been.6:14It don't matter 'cause he was with his woman where he should have been.6:17Right.6:17And that was you.6:17Woman? You ain't no woman. You ain't no woman.6:20You not either, so you should stop.6:22I know that.6:29Look at you. Look at what? Look at6:31Rufus.6:32Look at me.6:33I- thank you.6:37Thank you.6:38Okay. Rufus, are you upset- are you more upset with the fact that he's with someone else, or the fact that the someone else he is with is a woman?6:45Jerry, honey, let me tell you, it's like this. I'm in a... No, listen.6:49I'm mad at the fact that, for one, I really love Shanae, okay?6:53Over.6:54Shut up! Shut up!6:56You'll get over.6:59Listen, I'm trying to, can I talk to Jerry?7:02All right.7:02I'm trying to talk to Jerry. He asked me a question, I'm gonna answer it.7:05Anyway, are you wearing a tie in here? No, you're not.7:07You answer his question, little girl.7:09Anyway, Jerry, I'm mad the fact that, I mean, I gave everything to him, okay?7:12I was there for him and everything. Uh, you know, I just don't understand how she came in the picture, okay?7:18I mean, he's, yes, we've been kind of distant, but I'm thinking it's maybe, you know, he's been busy trying to get into modeling or whatever he think.7:24I played you, that's what it was.7:25You ain't play nobody but your own self.7:27Let the fat lady sing.7:28You ain't play nobody but your own self anyway.7:30Like Nintendo, baby.7:31Tell me your cousin.7:35Okay. Is there something you want to say to Trinea? No one else talking.7:39You something you want to say to Trinea?7:41Yeah, Jerry, it is. I mean, I'm gonna go ahead and say it anyway.7:44I've been...7:47Look.7:49Let me come around here, I guess.7:50You do not need to come around.7:51Security, because I'm on the phone.7:52No, I'm not gonna do anything. Let me just put this tissue in my pocket here.7:57Well, he ain't pregnant, I know that.7:59Quiet, listen.8:01You know, man, you've been through a whole lot.8:03Talk to me over here. I can't see you from back. I don't trust you, okay?8:06Let me tell you something. Can I talk, please?8:08Okay.8:08I'm trying to be nice here.8:09Okay.8:11I mean, can you tell me how many times I've been trying to tell you this certain something at nighttime when we play this little game, like reading each other's mind and everything?8:20Mm-hmm.8:21Now, I don't think, let me ask you this. How many licks does it take to get to the center of the lollipop?8:2514. 14.8:273 times, as many times as I told you, Shanae, there was something I needed to tell you, but you didn't want to listen to me, but I got to get this off my chest, and I'm gonna let you know what it is.8:38Talk to me.8:40You know, I think we had something special going on, and we really can continue this.8:45I mean, if you just get rid of this thing anyway, don't even say nothing.8:53You know, I really...8:56You look, I really...8:59You know, I really love you, Shanae.9:03Can I talk? Can I please talk?9:06Shanae, I mean...9:08Don't touch me, don't touch me.9:09Shanae, I mean...9:12Uh, is it okay? I mean, if... you and I can... No!9:18Okay, what part of that don't you understand? The end of the oh baby.9:21Don't touch me. I don't want anything to do with a man. I am satisfied.9:24You see? Thank you, bye. Over there.9:26To Luke, bye.9:27Pick him up, please. Oh, shut up. Oh.9:31No. It's not no9:32I'm trying to be serious.9:33You ain't nothing but a that's all you are.9:35I'm not no. Who are you? Who are you?9:40And you use me, and that's all you do.9:43How9:45you gonna be with9:45Jerry, Jerry, I understand that you've decided that you two don't want to be together, though I think you could be friendlier about it.9:52But here's the question. She raises the point, and you have to answer that inside your own self.9:58Can you trust the notion?10:00That at some point, no matter how sincere he may be now, at some point he's gonna really want to be with a man because he admits to being bisexual and that he won't be faithful to you.10:09Anything10:10Are you prepared?10:10is possible. Yes, I am.10:12And you're willing to take that risk?10:13Anything is possible. I mean, I'm not gonna keep going through it, no.10:16Jerry.10:17So why did he wait so long to tell?10:18Jerry, I don't want him no more. I want a woman. That's my whole10:21Why did she wait so long to tell her then?10:23You're saying you'll take the risk. Is that right, Kyra?10:27Yes.10:27You'll take the risk that he's gonna be faithful, but if he's with another guy ever again, he's out of there.10:31Is that what you're saying?10:32Right. It won't happen again.10:33Please meet.10:34Um, my question is for Kyra. Um, how can you be with, sleep with that, knowing that that slept with that?